Welcome to our latest deep dive into the world of home design and renovation! This week, we’re pulling back the curtain on a design decision that, in hindsight, might have been a bit of a misstep in our beloved beach house kitchen. It’s a common scenario for many homeowners – a choice made with good intentions that ultimately doesn’t quite hit the mark. The good news? It’s a fixable design faux pas, and we’re excited to share our journey through this realization, explaining exactly why we had a change of heart and the practical steps we took to correct it. This process highlights the iterative nature of design, reminding us that even seasoned renovators learn and adapt along the way. Our insights will offer valuable lessons for anyone grappling with similar design dilemmas, proving that flexibility is key to achieving your dream home.
Beyond our personal renovation stories, we’re tackling a highly debated design “trend” that stirs up quite a bit of passion, sometimes even outright rage, among design enthusiasts. We’ll weigh in with our honest take on this polarizing topic, exploring why it generates such strong reactions and helping you navigate whether it’s a trend worth embracing or avoiding in your own space. Understanding the psychology behind popular (and unpopular) design choices can empower you to make more informed decisions that truly reflect your personal style, rather than just following fleeting fads. Get ready for a candid discussion that might just change how you view certain decor elements!
For those dreaming of a bedroom retreat that rivals the most luxurious hotel suites, we’re unveiling the secrets to recreating that super cozy, magazine-worthy bed. Achieving that plush, inviting look seen in glossy publications often feels unattainable, but we’ll break down the professional tricks that can be adapted for real-life homes. We’ll also candidly discuss which intricate bed-making techniques are best left to the pros, ensuring you can create a beautiful, comfortable haven without unnecessary frustration. From layering textiles to selecting the perfect pillows, prepare to transform your bedroom into a sanctuary of comfort and style. And for a lighter note, a burning question many have asked: does Young House Love have a board game? We’ll reveal all!
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Beach House Kitchen Renovation: Our Fridge “Oops” and Smart Solutions
In the world of home design, sometimes even the most thought-out plans need a second look. This week, we’re being completely transparent about a design choice in our beach house kitchen that, while well-intentioned, didn’t quite achieve the seamless functionality we envisioned. We initially installed a mini fridge in close proximity to the walk-in pantry, which housed our full-size refrigerator. The idea was to have convenient access to drinks and snacks without needing to open the main pantry door constantly. However, in practice, this setup created an awkward bottleneck and disrupted the flow of our kitchen workspace, proving less efficient than anticipated.

- As you can see in the photo above, the original placement of the mini fridge was right next to the pantry entrance, where our full-size fridge was located. This proximity, meant for convenience, actually created a visual and functional imbalance in the space, hindering smooth movement and appliance access.
- For those interested in the backstory, you can dive deeper into the original beach house fridge debate and the rationale behind our initial two-fridge solution in Episode #74 of our podcast. We believe in sharing both our successes and our learning experiences, as they are integral to any renovation journey.
- Our previous post detailing the process of buying our appliances also offers insight into our thought process for initially opting against a full-sized fridge in the main kitchen, and our decision to convert the breakfast nook into a spacious walk-in pantry. This context helps understand the initial strategy before we pivoted to a better solution that maximized efficiency.
The “Switcheroo”: Rethinking Our Kitchen Layout for Optimal Flow
Realizing that the initial configuration wasn’t serving us optimally, we decided it was time for a change. Over a recent weekend, we successfully executed the “fridge/cabinet switcheroo,” a relatively simple adjustment that has made a significant difference in the kitchen’s functionality and aesthetic. By relocating the mini-fridge and reconfiguring the surrounding cabinetry, we’ve opened up the pantry entrance, creating a more intuitive and spacious pathway. This small but impactful change demonstrates that sometimes, the best design solutions come from living in a space and understanding its true needs over time.

- The updated space, pictured above, already feels much more integrated and less cluttered. We’re still putting the finishing touches on – adding hardware to the new cabinet doors and completing some baseboard work – but the immediate improvement in flow is undeniable. This modification not only enhances the kitchen’s usability but also contributes to a more cohesive and visually appealing design, making daily tasks much smoother.
- For those inspired by our organized pantry, you can find a detailed tutorial on how we built the pantry shelves that seamlessly integrate around our full-size fridge. This custom solution maximizes storage and keeps essentials neatly tucked away, optimizing space and accessibility, as seen in the photograph below.

Shop the look: full-size fridge / white storage bins / similar woven baskets / similar pendant light
To truly grasp how our entire pantry and kitchen layout harmonizes, we invite you to take a virtual “walk through.” Our post featuring a video tour offers an immersive experience, helping you visualize how every element, from the appliances to the custom shelving, fits together to create a functional and inviting culinary space. This comprehensive tour is perfect for anyone planning a kitchen renovation or looking for clever space-saving ideas to enhance their home.
Can We Just Talk About… The Controversial Backward Books Trend?
Few design trends spark as much heated debate as the “backward books” phenomenon. This involves arranging books on shelves with their spines facing inwards, showcasing only the pages, often in an attempt to create a neutral, textural backdrop. Proponents argue it reduces visual clutter and provides a calm, uniform aesthetic, allowing the decor around the books to shine. Opponents, however, vehemently argue that it defeats the fundamental purpose of books: to be read, identified, and easily accessed. They see it as an affront to literature and a triumph of superficial styling over practicality and intellectual engagement.
- The strong feelings around this trend are perfectly encapsulated in this impassioned article from Elle Decor, which makes a compelling case against the practice, highlighting the functional drawbacks and the perceived disrespect for books. It’s a fascinating read that really gets to the heart of why design choices can become so emotionally charged, touching upon aesthetics, practicality, and personal values.
- At Young House Love, our approach to bookshelves aims to strike a balance between aesthetics and accessibility. While we appreciate a streamlined look, we also believe books should be celebrated for their content. Therefore, we’ve landed on a solution that embraces both visual appeal and practical use: general color groupings. Rather than a rigid rainbow order or the controversial backward display, we arrange our books by general color families. This creates a visually appealing gradient and cohesion without sacrificing the ability to easily find and enjoy our collection, maintaining the integrity of our home library.

Shop the look: living room chairs / similar wood dresser / similar rug / kitchen pendants
Our method allows for an organized and calming visual, while still keeping the spines visible and easy to browse. It’s a practical compromise for book lovers who also appreciate thoughtful decor. The visual effect is one of curated comfort, where books contribute to the overall ambiance without dominating or disappearing into the background. This balance is key to creating a home that feels both stylish and genuinely lived-in, reflecting the personalities and interests of its occupants.

Here’s a shot of the other side of our living room, taken during the holiday season. Even with festive decorations, like the miniature ceramic Mr. & Mrs. Clause affectionately displayed, the color-grouped bookshelves maintain their harmonious presence, proving that this styling choice works year-round and adapts beautifully to seasonal decor changes. It’s about creating a timeless backdrop that allows personal touches and treasured items to truly shine.
Listener Question: Crafting the Ultra-Cozy, Magazine-Worthy Bed
One of the most frequent questions we receive is how to achieve that irresistibly cozy, luxuriously layered bed seen in high-end catalogs and magazines. These beds don’t just look good; they exude an inviting warmth and comfort that makes you want to dive right in. The secret lies in strategic layering, texture, and a touch of artful imperfection. Let’s break down how the pros do it and how you can bring that same feeling into your own home.
First, let’s admire some inspiration from catalog stylists, who are masters at creating beds that look both opulent and approachable. They use a combination of oversized elements, varied textures, and careful placement to build volume and depth. This often includes multiple pillows, plush duvets, and decorative throws that drape elegantly, forming what we affectionately call the “lived-in” bed look. Examples of this captivating style can be seen in catalogs from brands like West Elm and Pottery Barn, which expertly showcase that desirable, relaxed aesthetic. Imagine being nestled amongst those layers, just like a content pet – pure bliss!
For those who prefer a slightly more structured elegance, tailored beds also embrace the principle of generous layering. Companies like Ballard Designs illustrate how overlapping layers can still create impressive volume and visual richness, but with a more formal, crisp finish. Here, precision in folding and pillow arrangement contributes to a sophisticated ambiance. An even more immaculately made bed can be found in recent Annie Selke catalogs, which masterfully combine an extra layered bedding theme with an oversized tufted headboard. This showcases that even a highly polished look benefits from abundant textiles, with the key being a curated selection of fabrics and the deliberate stacking of elements to create depth.
Young House Love’s Real-Life Formula for a Dreamy Bed
While those catalog photos are undeniably aspirational, we won’t pretend our everyday beds achieve that level of immaculate, professional styling. Our goal is to create a realistic, yet equally inviting, cozy bed that’s easy to make and comfortable to sleep in. We’ve developed a “formula” that works perfectly for us in real life, focusing on comfort, visual appeal, and practicality. The secret weapon? Sizing up key elements for a more luxurious drape and feel.
- On our queen-sized bed, we employ a simple yet effective layering strategy:
- King-Sized Duvet & Insert: This is our number one tip! Using a duvet and insert that are one size larger than your mattress (e.g., king-sized for a queen bed) provides a generous drape over the sides, eliminating that skimpy look and creating an instantly more luxurious and inviting feel. It also ensures better coverage for two sleepers, preventing any late-night tug-of-war for covers.
- Pillow Power: We use two standard sleep pillows, followed by two king-sized pillows with decorative shams placed in front. This creates a substantial backrest for reading or lounging and adds significant visual fullness and height to the bed.
- Accent Pillow: A single, well-chosen accent pillow in the middle adds a pop of color, texture, or pattern, tying the whole look together without feeling overly fussy or cluttered. It’s the perfect finishing touch.
- Extra Credit – The Folded Blanket: A king-sized blanket, neatly folded at the foot of the bed, adds another layer of texture, warmth, and visual interest. It also offers practical warmth for cooler nights, easily accessible without disturbing the main duvet.
- This combination creates a plush, layered look that feels incredibly inviting without being overly complicated to arrange each morning. The additional fabric from the oversized duvet and blanket provides that “sink-into” feeling you often find in high-end hotels. We discuss the benefits of sizing up your duvet, insert, and blanket, along with other tips for mixing and matching textures and choosing the right headboards, in more detail within this podcast episode, so be sure to listen for all the nuances!

Shop the look: duvet cover / blue decorative pillow / white knit blanket / wall art / headboard / wall sconce light / night stands / sound machine
We’ll admit, we tend to shy away from straight-on “bed shots” in our beach house photography – perhaps because they never quite capture the true coziness! However, these glimpses offer a peek into how we mix and match elements to create a cohesive yet individual style for each room. A great tip for budget-conscious decorators: we often split duvet sets across multiple beds. For example, the bed above received the duvet itself, while the one below benefited from the coordinating pillow shams, creating a cohesive yet varied look throughout the house without needing to buy multiple full sets.

Shop the look: headboard / area rug / blue throw blanket / side table / table lamp / curtain rods / curtains / sound machine
For those hands-on DIY enthusiasts, we also have a fantastic tutorial for making your own upholstered headboard. The headboard featured below is the very same one from our original tutorial, which we simply recovered with a more neutral fabric a year or two ago to update its look and extend its life. This demonstrates how a little DIY effort can result in a personalized, high-end piece that perfectly complements your evolving style and budget, proving that custom doesn’t always mean costly.

Shop the look: bedside lamp / duvet cover (we flipped it over) / similar night stand / gold picture frames / similar baby mobile
If you’re meticulously planning your own beach house design or simply love our aesthetic, we’ve compiled a dedicated page with all the paint colors and other sources from our beach house. This resource is designed to help you recreate similar looks in your own home with ease. Furthermore, we’re diligently working on a comprehensive Before & After page, which, after over a year and a half of dedicated renovation work, is an incredibly exciting project! We hope to have it launched very soon, showcasing the full transformation of this special place and inspiring your own home improvement adventures.
We’re Digging: Board Game Fun and Fresh Scents for Your Home
Beyond design and decor, we’re always excited to share what else is bringing joy and practicality to our lives. This segment is all about those little discoveries that make a big difference, from engaging entertainment to delightful home essentials that elevate everyday experiences.
- The recent board game excitement on our Instagram Stories was truly epic! Thanks to a memorable “MermaidFitJess dream” (yes, you read that right!), we dove headfirst into a discussion about our favorite games. Sherry wisely archived that entire “InstaStory” on our profile, so it won’t vanish into the digital ether. To relive all the fun board-game-related hijinks and recommendations, simply visit our Instagram profile page on your mobile app and scroll through the little circular story highlights until you find the one labeled “YHL Game?”. Click on it to watch all the entertaining segments and discover new games for your next family night.
- If you’re eager to expand your game collection, we enthusiastically recommend Exploding Kittens – a hilariously strategic card game (don’t forget the Imploding Kittens expansion pack for even more chaos!). Another family favorite is Bears Vs. Babies, a monstrous card game from the same creators. These games are not only incredibly fun but also foster connection and laughter among players of all ages. We’re always on the lookout for new suggestions, so if you have board games you absolutely love, please share them with us!
- On a more sensory note, for those who, like Sherry, are keen to expand their “nasal horizons,” we have some delightful news. The captivating basil hand soap that recently won Sherry’s heart is also available in a complementary dishwashing liquid. This allows for a harmonious scent experience throughout your kitchen and home, making mundane tasks a little more enjoyable. Furthermore, the beloved “special edition” Mrs. Meyer’s Iowa Pine scent, perfect for a cozy, festive ambiance, is still readily available on Amazon. You can find a convenient sampler pack or stock up with a 6-pack of the hand soap. These little luxuries elevate everyday tasks and contribute to a welcoming home environment.

Can’t quite recall which episode featured that one amazing product or hack we raved about? No worries! We’ve meticulously curated a master list of everything we’ve been digging across all our past episodes. It’s your go-to resource for discovering all our favorite recommendations in one convenient place, making it easy to revisit our top picks for home, lifestyle, and more.
Finally, we extend a huge thank you to Agility Bed for their generous sponsorship of this episode. Their support helps us continue bringing you fresh content and design inspiration, making our work possible. You can experience the comfort and innovation of an Agility Bed mattress for yourself and get $150 off your order by visiting AgilityBed.com and simply entering the exclusive code YHL150 at checkout. Transform your sleep experience today with a bed designed for ultimate comfort and support!
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