The Unbought Year

Embark on a journey to redefine your home and personal finances with insights gleaned from inspiring real-life stories and expert advice. This comprehensive guide delves into transformative approaches, from committing to a year-long financial challenge to making strategic design choices that elevate your living spaces and even boost your home’s resale value. We explore the profound impact of intentional living, the joy of collaborative design, and the surprising revelations that can come from a simple DNA test. Join us as we uncover practical strategies and creative ideas to foster a home and life you truly cherish.

Embracing the “No-Spend” Challenge: A Path to Financial Freedom

Imagine putting your wallet on a strict lockdown for an entire year. For many, this sounds daunting, but Sherry recently shared the inspiring story of a woman who successfully undertook this monumental challenge, profoundly impacting her financial habits and consumption patterns. The “no-spend” year, as detailed in the acclaimed book The Year of Lessby Cait Flanders, outlines her journey, the core motivations behind it, and the carefully considered exceptions that made her goal attainable. This powerful narrative serves as a potent catalyst, inspiring countless individuals, including ourselves, to critically re-evaluate their spending habits. It’s a testament to the idea that by intentionally curbing discretionary purchases, one can achieve significant financial milestones, reduce clutter, and gain a clearer perspective on what truly brings value to life.

Cait Flanders’ experience extends beyond simply saving money; it’s about shifting one’s mindset from impulsive consumerism to mindful consumption. Her method encourages a deeper understanding of personal needs versus wants, fostering a greater appreciation for existing possessions, and diverting funds towards more meaningful goals, such as debt repayment or investment. If you’re feeling inspired to explore a similar path towards financial liberation and conscious living, Cait offers valuable ongoing resources and guidance on her website, making it easier for others to follow in her footsteps and embark on their own transformative financial challenges. This approach is not just about austerity; it’s about empowerment and building a more resilient financial future, allowing you to invest in experiences and things that truly matter.

Listen In: Your Guide to Smarter Living

Dive deeper into these captivating topics and more by tuning into our latest episode. Discover firsthand accounts, lively discussions, and practical advice on all the subjects mentioned here. You can effortlessly download or stream this episode from your preferred platform, ensuring you never miss out on valuable insights.

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Unlocking Your Past: The Ancestry DNA Journey

Beyond financial journeys, the episode also touched upon incredible personal discoveries, particularly through the lens of ancestry. There’s something uniquely humbling and fascinating about tracing your roots and understanding the tapestry of your heritage. We explored the experience of taking an AncestryDNA test, a simple yet powerful tool that can unveil surprising details about your ethnic origins and connect you with long-lost relatives. These tests, like the ones we’ve personally undertaken, typically provide results within approximately 8 weeks, requiring a bit of patience but promising profound revelations.

If you’re eager to embark on your own journey of self-discovery and genetic exploration, AncestryDNA tests are often available at competitive prices, such as the current offer for $79 on Amazon. This relatively small investment can open doors to a richer understanding of your personal history. Alternatively, if you’re interested in building a family tree without a DNA test, Ancestry.com provides an extensive database of historical documents. They frequently offer free trials, allowing you to search for relatives and piece together your lineage through historical records, census data, and immigration documents. It’s a captivating endeavor that connects you to generations past and offers invaluable insights into the journey that led to you.

The Strategic Art of Paint Colors: Boosting Home Value

When it comes to selling a home, every detail matters, and perhaps nothing impacts a potential buyer’s first impression more than paint color. We delved into fascinating research, particularly Zillow’s 2017 Paint Color Analysis, which astonishingly revealed how specific hues can significantly influence a home’s market value. This report, a must-read for anyone considering putting their house on the market, highlights which colors tend to fetch higher prices and, conversely, which might cause a property to sell for less than expected. The findings often surprise, challenging conventional wisdom about “safe” choices.

For a deeper dive into how trends evolve, you might also want to consult the 2016 Zillow report to see how buyer preferences have shifted year over year. And for a more interactive experience, revisit Episode #24, where Sherry put Chris to the test with a fun quiz based on that year’s data. Understanding these nuances can provide a crucial competitive edge in the real estate market.

Drawing from our extensive experience in home design and renovation, Sherry also shared some of her tried-and-true, sale-friendly wall colors. These selections are chosen for their broad appeal, ability to brighten spaces, and timeless quality, making them perfect candidates for homeowners looking to maximize their return on investment. Paired with complementary trim colors, these shades create a cohesive and inviting atmosphere that resonates with a wide range of tastes.

Sherry’s Top Sale-Friendly Wall Colors:

  • Edgecomb Gray by Benjamin Moore (with Simply White trim, also by BM): This warm, inviting greige offers the perfect balance between gray and beige, making it incredibly versatile. It provides a soft, sophisticated backdrop that allows furniture and decor to truly shine. Its subtle undertones prevent it from feeling cold, ensuring a cozy yet elegant ambiance, as beautifully illustrated in these examples:

Edgecomb Gray office with Simply White trim

office chair / bench / rug / woven blinds / curtains / rod / cork board tutorial / more room sources

  • And here, demonstrating its ability to create a bright, welcoming entrance:

neutral foyer fake gingko branch decor

console / similar mirror / similar baskets / more room sources

  • White Heron by Sherwin Williams (with Pure White trim, also by SW): A crisp, clean white with a touch of warmth that prevents it from feeling stark. White Heron is ideal for creating an open, airy feel, making rooms appear larger and brighter. It’s a classic choice that offers a sophisticated canvas for any decor style, and its popularity is well-deserved for its fresh appeal:

White Heron bedroom with Pure White trim

dresser / similar mirror / bench / rug / sconce / curtain rods / curtains / more room sources

  • And showcasing its ability to provide a serene bedroom retreat:

White Heron bedroom with blue accents

headboard / art / blue pillow / sconces / side tables / striped duvet / more room sources

  • Irish Mist by Behr (with Simply White trim by Benjamin Moore): This soft, pale green-gray possesses a calming quality that introduces a subtle hint of nature indoors. It’s a fantastic choice for creating a peaceful and serene environment without overwhelming the space, providing a refreshing alternative to traditional neutrals. Its gentle character pairs beautifully with warm or cool tones in furnishings.

Irish Mist living room with mega sofa

mega sofa (it’s 3 of these together) / similar rug / curtains / rod / more room sources

  • And providing a sophisticated backdrop in a kitchen setting:

Irish Mist kitchen with pendant lights

pendant lights / countertop / art / more room sources

  • Repose Gray by Sherwin Williams (with Pure White trim, also by SW): A popular and highly versatile warm gray, Repose Gray is celebrated for its ability to work with nearly any decor style, from modern to traditional. It offers a clean, sophisticated look without feeling stark, creating a serene and adaptable foundation for your home. Its balance of warm and cool undertones makes it incredibly appealing to a broad audience.

Repose Gray living room with leaning mirror

art / leaning mirror / shelves (we sprayed them gold) / rug / more room sources

  • And providing a calming atmosphere in a homework room:

Repose Gray homework room with desks

rug / desk / desk chairs / storage cubbies / more room sources

Designing Kids’ Rooms: Collaboration & Creativity

A listener recently posed an excellent question about involving children in the design of their rooms: how much input is too much, and how do you achieve a space they love that you also appreciate? This topic resonated deeply with us, as we’ve navigated the exciting, sometimes challenging, waters of designing spaces for our own children. The key, we’ve found, lies in thoughtful collaboration and setting clear boundaries, ultimately fostering creativity and a sense of ownership for the child.

For example, our daughter’s room has undergone several charming transformations over the years, a delightful evolution that you can trace through this documented progression. The most recent iteration, showcasing her current tastes, is detailed further in this post. These updates highlight how her personality has grown and how we’ve adapted her space to reflect her changing interests while maintaining a cohesive aesthetic.

girls bedroom campaign sidetable wooden spool headboard

art / night stand / rug / similar headboard / lamp / more room sources

Our son’s room, thanks to his younger age, hasn’t seen as many drastic changes, but his transition to a “big boy bed” was a significant milestone. This update, complete with his chosen bedding, is thoroughly covered in this post, offering a glimpse into how even small choices can make a child feel more invested in their space. You can even spot the striped sheets he proudly picked out peeking through in this photograph, illustrating the impact of allowing children to make personal selections.

boy's bedroom with striped sheets

light / sconces / blue pillows / similar daybed & rug / ottoman / more room sources

A consistent strategy we employed in both rooms was keeping the walls a neutral color, such as Benjamin Moore’s “Going To The Chapel” in our son’s room and Sherwin Williams’ “White Heron” in our daughter’s. This creates a calm foundation, allowing us to introduce vibrant pops of color and personality through easily changeable elements. Think bedding, fun accessories, or even unexpected painted surfaces like the ceiling in our daughter’s room or the closet doors in both of their spaces. This approach empowers kids to express themselves without committing to a color that might quickly fall out of favor, making updates far more manageable and budget-friendly.

kids room with colorful accents

similar chair and side table / cloth bins / ottoman / bookshelf tutorial / more room sources

We even have a detailed post, complete with a video, showing how we got our daughter involved in a specific design element of her room when she was just three years old! Check it out here to see how even toddlers can contribute to their space. More recently, she requested a desk in her closet, a project we happily tackled together. This initiative wasn’t just about creating a functional workspace; it was about honoring her growing independence and fostering her love for her own environment. This photo captures it before her pink chair and the added rug, which later made that cozy corner even more inviting. We even shared a tutorial on how we covered that back wall in fabric for a unique, personalized touch here.

girls bedroom closet writing desk fabric wallpaper

We’re Digging: Inspiring Finds & Favorites

Every episode, we love to share what’s currently captivating our attention, from inspiring television shows to practical lifestyle products. This time, we were particularly enthusiastic about the work of Leann & Steve, the talented sister-and-brother duo behind HGTV’s Restored By The Fords. Their design philosophy is wonderfully unique, often incorporating unexpected elements that truly make a space feel special. One such example that left us particularly charmed was a space featuring a prominent gold swan – definitely not something you see every day, and it perfectly encapsulates their ability to blend whimsy with sophisticated design.

Their approach to restoration and design breathes new life into homes, marrying modern sensibilities with historical character. You can explore more of their innovative projects and distinctive style on HGTV’s dedicated webpage, where you’ll find a treasure trove of inspiring images and design ideas. With their first season wrapped up, it’s the perfect opportunity to binge-watch their captivating transformations on demand. And for those who, like us, became instant fans, the exciting news is they’ve been greenlit for a second season, promising more creative brilliance in 2019!

On a more personal note, Chris also shared his positive experience with Wohven, a t-shirt subscription service that has genuinely impressed him. Coming from a background of wearing everyday brands like Target and Old Navy, or often receiving free shirts from various races he runs, Chris noted a significant upgrade in quality with Wohven. This service offers a fantastic blend of convenience and style, allowing subscribers to choose their size, neckline (crew or V-neck), and preference for plain ($9) or graphic tees ($11). The quality and unique designs have made it a standout recommendation for anyone looking to refresh their wardrobe with comfortable, stylish, and durable everyday wear.

Wohven t-shirt designs

For those curious about previous recommendations, we’ve compiled a master list of everything we’ve been digging from all our past episodes. It’s a fantastic resource for discovering new products, shows, and ideas that we genuinely love and think you will too.

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Thank you for joining us on this exploration of smart living, design, and discovery. We hope these insights inspire you to make intentional choices, whether it’s redefining your financial habits, optimizing your home for resale, or creating joyful spaces with your loved ones. Until next time, keep exploring and creating!

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