Welcome to a retrospective journey through a decade of marriage, shared adventures, and evolving home aspirations. Back in July of 2007, the thought of our wedding day evoked a singular, perfect vision: a heartfelt, intimate ceremony held right in our very own backyard. It was a day woven with personal touches, brimming with love, and surrounded by our closest friends and family. Fast forward ten years, however, and while the core sentiment remains, hindsight offers a different lens. As we reflect on a decade of shared life, love, and endless home projects, there are certainly a few things we might approach differently today. This article delves into those reflections, offering a candid look at our past, present, and future. We’ll recount the special way we marked our monumental 10th anniversary, proving that some cherished habits truly never fade. Beyond the nostalgic glances, we’ll also pull back the curtain on our latest domestic debate – a significant home purchase that has sparked a lively discussion. And for those who appreciate a good confession, I’ll also reveal my ongoing battle with a particular accessory, one that has been a steadfast companion even longer than my wonderful wife, Sherry, has been in my life. Get ready for a blend of sentimental memories, practical insights, and perhaps a touch of design inspiration as we share our journey.
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Celebrating a Decade: Our Unforgettable 10th Anniversary Adventure
As we fondly recounted in this week’s podcast episode, our grand celebration for reaching the incredible milestone of ten years of marriage took us far from home to the vibrant shores of Puerto Rico. This wasn’t just any trip; it was a meticulously planned escape designed to blend all the elements we cherish most: profound relaxation, thrilling adventure, and rich cultural immersion. From the moment we arrived, Puerto Rico captivated us, offering the perfect backdrop to reflect on our journey and create new memories. Our days were a blissful combination of serene moments spent poolside and beachside, indulging in leisurely swims, savoring delicious local cuisine, and diving into captivating books. But it wasn’t all about unwinding; our adventurous spirits were equally satisfied with exhilarating kayaking expeditions through bioluminescent bays, invigorating hikes through lush rainforests, and peaceful paddleboarding sessions on crystal-clear waters. We also embraced the island’s rich heritage, spending hours exploring the colorful, historic streets of Old San Juan, absorbing its unique charm and fascinating history.
The journey was a testament to how far we’ve come, both individually and as a couple, over the past decade. Every moment, from the quiet morning coffees overlooking the ocean to the lively evenings immersed in local music, felt significant. We’re still sifting through about ten million photos and countless stories, all eager to be shared in an upcoming dedicated post where we’ll delve deeper into the intricacies of our Puerto Rican adventure, offering practical tips and more visual delights for anyone dreaming of their own island escape. For now, here are just a few glimpses into the magic we experienced.
Comparing this anniversary trip to our very first post-wedding adventure offers a fascinating contrast. Back in 2007, fresh from our backyard wedding, we embarked on an unforgettable honeymoon to Alaska. That trip definitely skewed heavily towards adventure rather than relaxation, with breathtaking landscapes and rugged exploration defining our newlywed escapade. You can still read all about our Alaskan honeymoon if you’re curious about our earliest travel stories and how our preferences have evolved.
Beyond the Main Topics: Quirky Debates & Fascinating Facts
While our anniversary trip and home projects often dominate our conversations, both on and off the podcast, we also enjoy diving into more unexpected and sometimes quirky topics. One such recent tangent that made for a particularly engaging discussion (and a fun quiz for Sherry!) revolved around the intriguing world of trademarked colors. It’s a niche area, but surprisingly fascinating when you consider how certain brands meticulously protect their specific hues, making them as distinctive as any logo or slogan. These colors become integral to brand identity, immediately recognizable and powerful in their own right.
- If you’re as intrigued as we were by the concept of companies legally owning specific shades, here’s a deep dive into some of the most famous examples. You can explore a comprehensive list of 9 Trademarked Colors from Mental Floss, offering a look at the history and legal battles behind these unique brand assets.
- For even more examples and insights into the business implications of color, Business Insider also provides an excellent article on the topic. It’s truly eye-opening to learn which colors are fiercely guarded, from Tiffany Blue to UPS Brown. We even touched upon the interesting case of IKEA’s distinctive blue and yellow color combination, which, despite its strong association with the brand, faced its own challenges in the realm of trademark protection. It just goes to show how much thought and strategy goes into every visual element of a successful brand, even down to the precise shade of blue or yellow.
Our Backyard Wedding: A Decade Later, Unfiltered Reflections
Our wedding day in July 2007 was everything we envisioned and more – a small, incredibly sweet celebration right in our own backyard. It was a conscious decision, driven by a desire for intimacy, personal touches, and a wedding experience that truly felt like “us,” rather than adhering to traditional expectations. At the time, we couldn’t imagine any other way to start our married life. It was a DIY endeavor filled with love, creativity, and the collaborative spirit of our friends and family. From the homemade decorations to the relaxed atmosphere, every detail reflected our personalities and our approach to life.
Looking back a decade later, the memories remain just as vivid and cherished. That backyard wedding laid a beautiful foundation for our marriage, emphasizing resourcefulness, authenticity, and shared joy. It taught us valuable lessons about prioritizing what truly matters over elaborate expenses and focusing on the essence of commitment. However, with ten years of life experience, growth, and evolving tastes, it’s only natural to wonder: if we were to do it all over again today, what might we change? While we wouldn’t trade the memories for anything, perhaps we’d reconsider a few logistical elements, or even some of the smaller design choices, influenced by our current understanding of home decor and entertaining. Still, the fundamental choice of a personal, intimate, and budget-friendly celebration remains something we deeply cherish and would likely replicate in spirit. It was the perfect start to our journey as homeowners and as a married couple, a testament to building a life together from the ground up, quite literally in our own backyard.
- For those who crave every detail of our intimate backyard celebration, including a full breakdown of the budget, the planning process, and a treasure trove of photos from that special day, you can revisit our virtual wedding album. It’s a comprehensive look at how we pulled off our dream wedding without breaking the bank, offering inspiration for any couple considering a more personal and cost-effective approach.
- Speaking of personal touches, Sherry’s creative spirit extended beyond the wedding day itself. After our nuptials, she transformed her beautiful white wedding dress into a versatile grey gown, making it suitable for other people’s weddings and events. You can discover the fascinating process and the story behind how Sherry dyed her wedding dress, a true testament to sustainable fashion and making the most out of cherished garments.
- And for those who appreciate a truly sentimental journey through our past, you can indulge in our engagement story, a sweet recounting of how our journey to marriage began. This same article also offers a delightful look back at how we’ve celebrated our past anniversaries, revealing our unique traditions and milestone markers, including the memorable cake tasting we enthusiastically undertook for our seventh anniversary. Each year brings new ways to celebrate and reaffirm our commitment, and these stories are a testament to our ongoing love and evolving traditions.
Evolving Spaces & Personal Style: Our Latest Home & Accessory Obsessions
Our home is a constant canvas for our evolving tastes and needs, and currently, the living room is the focal point of a spirited discussion – a “home purchase argument” as I like to call it. The debate centers around finding the perfect sofa, a cornerstone piece that needs to balance comfort, style, durability, and our current design aesthetic. Sherry has been meticulously researching and visualizing different options, imagining how each piece would anchor our living space. It’s more than just a piece of furniture; it’s about defining the heart of our home, a space where we gather, relax, and create memories. The selection process involves countless considerations: fabric durability to withstand daily family life, a design that complements our existing decor while offering a fresh update, and of course, the ultimate comfort for lounging. This isn’t just about picking a couch; it’s about making an investment in our everyday living and the atmosphere of our most frequently used room.
- Above, you can see the four contenders that Sherry is currently envisioning for our living room. While she’s focused on their form and function, the colors shown here are illustrative, as we’d be selecting specific fabrics and shades to match our interior design palette. Each option represents a different style and comfort profile, from sleek modern lines to more plush and inviting silhouettes. These are the current front-runners in our quest for the perfect living room centerpiece: 1 – the Andres Sofa, known for its contemporary elegance; 2 – the Harmony Sofa, often praised for its deep seating and comfort; 3 – the Shelter Sofa, celebrated for its clean lines and versatility; and 4 – the Antwerp Slipcover Sofa, which offers a relaxed aesthetic and practical removable covers. The decision will come down to a blend of aesthetics, comfort, and how each piece fits into our overall vision for the space, ensuring it can grow with our family for years to come.
Beyond our ongoing home renovation and decor projects, I find myself grappling with a personal style dilemma – one that centers around a beloved, albeit heavily used, accessory. For years, my trusty college-era backpack has been an unwavering companion, a true workhorse that defies its age. It’s seen me through countless speaking events, dutifully lugging our laptop and presentation materials across the country. More recently, it’s transitioned seamlessly into my weekly gym routine, carrying workout gear and essentials. Remarkably, it even accompanied me to my triathlon last month, proving its enduring versatility and durability. This bag truly embodies the phrase #squadgoals in terms of functionality. However, its aesthetic might be slightly at odds with my sometimes business-casual attire. The juxtaposition of a slightly worn, utilitarian backpack with more polished clothing has become a subtle internal conflict, leading me to believe it might be time for an “intervention” and an upgrade to something that reflects my current lifestyle more accurately.
- Here you can see the best photographic evidence, from our 2012 book tour (yes, five years ago!), of the slightly anachronistic pairing of my evolving professional attire and my ever-present college backpack. This image perfectly illustrates the dilemma: a blend of business-y, yet still rooted in a past, more casual self.
- Naturally, this leads to a new quest: finding a replacement that offers the same practicality but with a more refined aesthetic. I’m actively on the lookout for suggestions! I’m still keen on the backpack form factor – its hands-free convenience is unbeatable for travel, commuting, and navigating a busy day. Briefcases and messenger bags, while stylish, just don’t offer the same level of comfort and utility for my varied activities. The goal is to find a bag that says “polished and purposeful,” rather than “I’ve had this since college and it shows.” I’ve started eyeing a few options, hoping to strike the perfect balance between style, durability, and functional design. The Rickshaw bags (1, 2) are appealing for their thoughtful design and quality, though they come with a higher price tag. They feel more refined and robust, promising a more polished look than the billboard vinyl versions from Rareform (3, 4), which offer unique, upcycled flair but perhaps a more casual vibe. What are your thoughts? I’m open to all recommendations for a durable, stylish, and functional backpack that can bridge the gap between gym essentials and professional settings.
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