Navigating DIY Challenges: Our Beach House Kitchen Renovation and Beyond
Embarking on joint house projects as a couple often brings forth a common question: “Do you ever argue?” The honest answer is, yes, we absolutely do. Our recent beach house kitchen installation proved to be a fertile ground for a few spirited disagreements, serving as a perfect illustration of the small speed bumps that can spark a spat. In this article, we’re pulling back the curtain to share the specifics of our latest kitchen skirmish, how we ultimately found common ground, and, perhaps most satisfyingly, who was right all along. But it’s not all conflict; we’re also thrilled to unveil another significant transformation underway in our beach house kitchen, particularly concerning the island’s evolution. Beyond our personal renovation tales, we’re taking on a widely circulated “real estate deal killer” myth, revealing why it might not be the costly and terrifying obstacle many believe it to be. Plus, we’ll dive into the intriguing rise of the new “it” room making waves in home design and share our indispensable trick for speeding up your holiday card preparations.
For a deeper dive into these stories, including all the behind-the-scenes discussions, you can listen to our latest podcast episode. It’s packed with details, debates, and design insights that complement this article beautifully. Tune in to hear our voices, our laughter, and yes, even a bit of our good-natured bickering!
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The Latest Buzz: Beach House Updates and Design Discoveries
Our beach house journey is continually evolving, bringing new challenges and exciting breakthroughs. We’re always eager to share the progress, the hurdles, and the lessons learned along the way. Here’s a glimpse into what’s new and noteworthy in our world of home renovation and design.
A Kitchen of Compromises and Strategic Choices
One of the most significant recent updates in our beach house kitchen revolves around our “fridge compromise.” As you can see in the accompanying photo, this solution, while still awaiting a final patch for a small hole and a missing cabinet drawer, represents a crucial step in achieving our kitchen vision. The beauty of this compromise is that it allows for a more streamlined, custom look in the main kitchen area, perfectly complemented by the full-sized fridge that’s scheduled for delivery tomorrow for our pantry. Woot indeed! This approach addresses both aesthetics and functionality, ensuring we don’t sacrifice storage or convenience.

This decision to strategically place our refrigeration units was part of a broader plan to transform our breakfast nook into a highly functional pantry. This bold move was detailed in a previous post where we discussed how this conversion allowed us to save money on appliances and optimize our kitchen layout. You can delve into the full story, including pictures of our initial cardboard mock-up and our final appliance selections, by visiting this insightful article.
The Heart of the Home: A New Island Arrives
Another exciting development on the horizon is the installation of our new kitchen island, expected in the next week or two. We’ve chosen a stunning Silestone quartz countertop in the shade “Pearl Jasmine.” This selection perfectly blends durability with a sophisticated aesthetic, promising to be a beautiful and practical centerpiece for our kitchen. If you’re currently in the market for quartz and mindful of your budget, you’ll definitely want to listen to this week’s podcast episode, as we share invaluable tips on how we managed to save money on this significant purchase. These are the kinds of budget-savvy insights we love to share with our listeners and readers!
Adding Artistic Touches and Reflecting on a Decade of Design
In the photo showcasing our fridge compromise, you might also notice a peek of one of Jeremy’s exquisite wooden bowls. These handcrafted pieces add a unique, personal touch to our decor, reflecting our appreciation for bespoke artistry. Below, you can see another shot of one of these beautiful creations. His passion for woodworking brings an authentic, artisanal flair to our home, making each space feel even more special and lived-in.

For those who missed our inspiring talk from the Bristol event, which chronicled a decade of decorating and life lessons learned while building our business and refining our personal style, you’re in luck! You can catch up on all the wisdom and anecdotes by checking out Episode #73 of our podcast. It’s a journey through the evolution of our design philosophy and how it intertwined with our lives.
Beyond the Traditional: Exploring Unique Home Spaces
We’re always fascinated by how homes evolve to meet modern living needs and desires. This often means challenging traditional room definitions and embracing new concepts that enhance comfort and lifestyle. Let’s delve into some exciting ideas about creating spaces that truly resonate with how we live today.
The Allure of the “Pajama Lounge”
Have you ever dreamed of a dedicated space in your home designed purely for relaxation, comfort, and perhaps even a bit of playful indulgence? Enter the “Pajama Lounge.” Above, you can see a glimpse of our very own, a space where we embrace laid-back living. This concept, far from being a mere novelty, speaks to a growing desire for informal zones within the home—places where you can truly unwind without the pressure of entertaining or adhering to formal decor. It’s a space for cozy movie nights, lazy weekend mornings, or simply retreating with a good book. We explore the full story behind its creation and why it has become such a beloved spot in our house here. It’s a testament to designing homes that truly cater to the occupants’ day-to-day comfort.

This trend towards more casual, personal spaces is gaining traction. We were particularly amused by a snapshot from House Beautiful that Sarah tweeted to us, hilariously using the word “newfangled” to describe these emerging home concepts. It just goes to show that innovative ideas, even if initially met with a raised eyebrow, often become the next big thing in home design.
Rethinking the Formal Living Room
In a world increasingly embracing open-plan living and multi-functional spaces, the traditional “formal living room” sometimes feels like an anachronism. While some homes still benefit from a dedicated formal area, many are finding new ways to utilize these spaces to better suit their lifestyle. We recently had the pleasure of helping our friends transform their formal living room into a more inviting and frequently used space, a makeover you can read all about here. It’s a great example of how a few strategic changes can breathe new life into an underutilized room, making it feel less like a museum and more like an integral part of the home.

The Unforeseen Renovation: Rebuilding Our Beach House from the Ground Up
Sometimes, a renovation project takes an unexpected turn, leading to decisions far more extensive than originally planned. Our beach house renovation journey included one such monumental decision: tearing down a significant portion of the structure and rebuilding it from the foundation up. This wasn’t a choice made lightly, but one necessitated by a series of hidden and escalating problems. We believe it’s important to share these major challenges, as they are a part of the real, often messy, side of home improvement.
From Demolition to Dream Layout: The Beach House Transformation
The image above offers a stark reminder of what our beach house looked like earlier this year, after a large chunk of it had to be completely demolished and rebuilt from the foundation. It was a daunting phase, filled with uncertainty and significant investment, but ultimately a necessary step towards creating a safe and lasting home. You can read more about the dramatic progress, including details on the walls going up and down, and our evolving floor plans, in this comprehensive post.

While the initial poor foundation certainly played a role in our decision, it was far from the only issue. The structure was plagued by a whole host of unrelated problems that made rebuilding the most viable and responsible option. We discovered completely rotten siding that you could literally stick your arm through—a horrifying revelation that underscored the extent of the decay. Add to that a caved-in roof and numerous other structural compromises, and it became clear that patching would be a temporary, ineffective fix. The cost and effort of piecemeal repairs would have far outweighed the long-term benefits of a complete rebuild.
The silver lining in this extensive reconstruction is the opportunity it afforded us to optimize the layout for modern living. This rebuilt area now thoughtfully houses all three bathrooms, a highly functional mudroom, the new, spacious pantry we discussed earlier, and a cozy upstairs bunk room. This strategic re-planning has resulted in a more efficient, comfortable, and beautiful home that truly meets the needs of our family and guests. It’s a testament to the idea that sometimes, starting anew provides the best foundation for future joy and functionality.

Our Latest Obsessions: Streamlining Life and Cherishing Memories
Beyond the hammers and paintbrushes, we’re always on the lookout for clever hacks, inspiring products, and heartwarming ways to make life a little easier and more enjoyable. From conquering holiday to-do lists to preserving precious family moments, here are some of our current favorites that we’re absolutely “digging.”
Effortless Holiday Card Creation with Minted
The holiday season can be a whirlwind, but sending out personalized cards doesn’t have to be a source of stress. We’ve been consistently impressed with Minted over the past few years, and no, this isn’t a sponsored endorsement—just genuine appreciation! What makes them stand out is not only the exceptional quality and beautiful designs but also their incredible convenience. Our chosen design this year was this specific one, but there are so many fantastic options. We also love these designs: 1 / 2 / 3 / 4 / 5 / 6 / 7 / 8 / 9.
The real game-changer for us has been their complementary address printing service. Seriously, not having to hand-address dozens of envelopes saves an enormous amount of time and effort during an already busy season. And talk about efficiency: this year, we received our cards within a remarkable 48 hours of ordering, without paying for any rush printing or shipping! For an extra layer of time-saving, Sherry also raved about this self-inking address stamper, perfect for return addresses or other mailing needs. These little details truly add up, allowing us more time to enjoy the festivities.
Personalized Calendars: A Year of Cherished Memories
Beyond holiday cards, we’re also huge fans of personalized calendars for both organization and memory-keeping. I can’t stop recommending the $40 personalized page-a-day calendar from Social Print Studio. It’s such a thoughtful and engaging way to relive special moments throughout the year. We’re already busy gathering our favorite photos to create a fresh batch of 2018 calendars for our entire family, a tradition that everyone eagerly anticipates.

One of our favorite ways to use these calendars involves our kids. Below is a photo illustrating how they love to tape up their favorite “Polaroid” calendar pages to the inside of their mudroom doors. It’s a delightful, ever-evolving gallery of their year’s adventures, watching their personal collection grow as the months pass. Then, each January, we start fresh with a new calendar, carefully adding the old set into their respective memory boxes, neatly tucked away in a little Ziploc bag. It’s a simple yet profound way to engage them in remembering and cherishing the moments that make up their year.

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