Welcome to a special edition of our weekly podcast, where we delve deep into the often-challenging, yet incredibly rewarding, world of home decorating and personal style. This week, we’re tackling a topic that resonates with so many homeowners: what do you do when a cherished, sentimental hand-me-down just doesn’t seem to fit with the aesthetic of your modern home? It’s a common dilemma – you love the history, the story, and the person who gave it to you, but functionally or visually, it feels like an outlier. We explore the internal conflict of trying endlessly to make it work, the guilt of considering letting it go, and the fear of feeling heartless. Is it better to endure an everlasting “side-eye” from an ill-fitting piece, or to gracefully part ways and create a home that truly reflects your present self?
Beyond this emotional design hurdle, we’re also pulling back the curtain on one of Sherry’s ambitious house schemes that, despite meticulous planning, quickly unraveled, offering valuable lessons on flexibility in design. John gets refreshingly real about the often-misleading allure of online “find your style” quizzes, questioning their true effectiveness in helping you cultivate an authentic personal aesthetic. And for a lighter touch, we spotlight an underrated kitchen accessory that deserves more recognition for its functionality and style potential, embark on a whimsical journey to discover what your home state truly smells like, and share a delightful message from a famous “neighbor” that’s sure to bring a smile to your face. Join us as we navigate these common home dilemmas and share practical advice for creating a space that is both beautiful and deeply personal.
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Home Transformations & Design Innovations: What’s New in Our World

Our recent house tour adventures provided a fascinating glimpse into both innovative design and common pitfalls. The image above, captured by Sherry, perfectly illustrates one such design challenge. Observe the “stairs” positioned at the bottom right; if placed there, they would effectively block the main entry from the foyer, creating an awkward and impractical circulation path. Furthermore, moving them to the left would compromise the coveted open-plan kitchen/living room, closing off the spacious feel that many homeowners desire. This example underscores the critical importance of thoughtful space planning and traffic flow in any home renovation or new build. A well-designed layout ensures not only aesthetic appeal but also maximum functionality and ease of living. We often encounter these kinds of design dilemmas, and learning from them is crucial for creating truly livable spaces.
In our quest to genuinely understand and define personal aesthetics, we’ve been pondering the utility of online design quizzes. An insightful post from design guru Emily Henderson really got us thinking more deeply about these quizzes and their general effectiveness. While they can be a fun starting point, are they truly reliable indicators of one’s unique decorating style?
Curiosity led us to browse through all of our own historical posts about online design quizzes. Our goal was to check for active links and see how these tools have evolved over time. And guess what? To our surprise, absolutely NONE of the quizzes we referenced years ago are still accessible! While you can still follow those links to read our past recaps, commentaries, and even our own results, not a single one of the original quiz platforms remains active. To be fair, the last time we dedicated an entire blog post to one of these specific quizzes was all the way back in 2011, which highlights just how quickly online trends and resources can change. This obsolescence got us thinking about the transient nature of online content and the ongoing journey of style discovery.
In an effort to provide current, fun, and potentially more relevant resources, and to totally redeem the defunct links, here are a couple of contemporary options for anyone looking to playfully explore their home style:
- Emily Henderson offers her own sophisticated Home Style Quiz, known for its beautiful visuals and thoughtful questions designed to pinpoint your aesthetic preferences.
- Houzz provides a comprehensive “What’s Your Decorating Style?” Quiz, tapping into their vast database of design ideas to help users categorize their tastes.
- For a more in-depth exploration, Apartment Therapy presents their Ultimate Find Your Style Quiz, renowned for its detailed questions that delve into various aspects of lifestyle and design.
- The Novogratz’s Gratzi Design Quiz offers a unique approach to style identification, though it’s important to note that this particular quiz is primarily accessible and optimized via mobile devices.
- And for those who love variety, HGTV hosts a whole slew of quizzes, covering everything from design preferences to lifestyle choices, providing endless entertainment and inspiration.
And speaking of quizzes, we couldn’t resist checking for the lighter side of online personality tests. It turns out Buzzfeed DOES indeed have a “What type of bread are you” quiz. Apparently, after much deliberation and careful selection, I am officially a banana bread – a truly comforting and versatile outcome!
Sensory Experiences: What’s Not to Love?
In our ongoing exploration of creating a truly immersive and personalized home environment, we’ve been captivated by the concept of sensory design. One fascinating way to tap into this is through scent, and that’s where Homesick Candles come into play. These unique candles are designed to evoke the distinct aromas associated with specific states, cities, and even memories. It’s an incredibly imaginative way to connect with a place you love, miss, or simply want to experience. Imagine lighting a candle that smells like a “New York City” morning or the “California” coast – it’s a delightful journey for the senses. You can browse their extensive collection to discover what your home state, or even a cherished travel destination, might smell like, adding an entirely new dimension to your home’s ambiance.
Your Voice, Our Solutions: Listener Calls & Decor Inspiration
We absolutely love hearing from you, our incredible listeners! Your questions and design dilemmas fuel so much of our discussion and inspire us to share practical, real-world solutions. Remember, you can always leave us a voicemail with your burning home design or DIY questions. Just dial 571-4-YHLHAP (which spells out 571-494-5427), and we might feature your query in an upcoming episode! We cherish the opportunity to help you navigate your own home improvement journeys.
In this episode, we referenced a couple of our own projects that perfectly exemplify how to breathe new life into existing pieces, particularly those with sentimental value. Below, you’ll see the vibrant green buffet that graces our dining room. When we first acquired it, this charming piece definitely needed some significant paint touch-ups to restore its former glory. Through careful restoration and a fresh coat of paint, it transitioned from a tired, overlooked item into a focal point that adds a pop of color and personality to our home. This transformation highlights the potential hidden within older furniture and the impact a little DIY effort can make.
Similarly, we shared the story of how we completely revitalized a hand-me-down dresser from John’s dad. This piece, originally a relic from a different era, underwent a thoughtful makeover. We focused on updating its appearance and enhancing its functionality, ensuring it would serve a new purpose in our home. Today, this re-imagined dresser proudly resides in our master closet, providing valuable storage while carrying forward its rich family history. These projects are a testament to the fact that sentimental items don’t have to be stagnant; they can evolve with your home and your style.
For more in-depth insights into these transformations and a wealth of strategies for creating a home that’s both beautiful and deeply personal, we encourage you to explore our second book, Lovable Livable Home. You can find detailed stories, tips, and inspiration on topics like integrating family heirlooms and maximizing your living spaces, starting on page 29. It’s a resource packed with practical advice to help you fall even more in love with your home.

Our Current Obsessions: What We’re Digging Right Now
Every week, we share a few of our current favorite finds, tools, and inspirations that are adding joy and efficiency to our lives, or simply sparking our creativity. This week, we’re particularly excited about some unique items that cater to both creative minds and functional home needs.
For the budding inventors and imaginative thinkers in your life, we absolutely recommend the My Crazy Invention Sketchbook. This isn’t just any ordinary sketchbook; it’s a delightful blend of art and engineering, designed specifically to inspire kids to dream up, draw, and even conceptualize their wildest inventions. It encourages critical thinking, problem-solving, and artistic expression, making it a fantastic tool for nurturing young creative minds and providing hours of engaging, educational fun. It’s a perfect gift for any child who loves to tinker and imagine!
And because we know the anticipation was probably killing you after our discussion about underrated kitchen accessories, we’re finally revealing Sherry’s highly curated list of favorite fruit bowls! These aren’t just practical items for holding your produce; they are statement pieces that can elevate your kitchen counter, add a touch of color, or introduce interesting textures and materials into your decor. A well-chosen fruit bowl can be a surprising design element that brings both beauty and utility to your space. Here’s a round-up of her top picks, ranging in style, material, and design:
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Psst- Looking for something specific we’ve “dug” in a past episode, but can’t quite remember which show notes to click into? We understand the struggle! That’s why we’ve compiled a master list of everything we’ve ever recommended across all our previous episodes. It’s your ultimate resource for discovering favorite products, books, tools, and ideas we’ve shared over the years. Happy digging!

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