The Turning Wheel

Welcome to a tale of unexpected turns, where a humble power tool gifted years ago now stands as a delightful symbol of life’s serendipitous path. This particular story begins with a Dremel rotary tool, a seemingly innocuous item I acquired from the DIY Network.

Old Dremel tool

I understand what this might look like at first glance: a blatant violation of our well-established, self-imposed “no-free-swag” policy here at the blog. However, let me assure you, this Dremel is a relic from a bygone era, specifically 2003. This predates our strict policy by several years, which explains its somewhat worn but undeniably charming appearance. In fact, it even predates the very existence of our blog, the significant milestone of purchasing our first home, and even the start of my relationship with Sherry; we didn’t cross paths until 2004 and began dating in 2005. So, consider this Dremel a historical artifact, exempt from contemporary rules.

The Genesis of a Gift: My NYC Internship Adventure

You’re likely pondering how a single, 21-year-old college student, residing in a modest apartment in New York City, came to be the recipient of a complimentary tool from a prominent home improvement network. The answer lies in a highly sought-after, if unpaid, position: I proudly held the prestigious title of “intern.”

Young intern in NYC

That snapshot captures me in August of 2003, on the final day of my summer advertising internship in the bustling heart of New York City. Coincidentally, it was the day before the infamous citywide blackout, adding an extra layer of memorable chaos to that period. My behavior in the photo—hugging a colossal bubblegum machine in our building’s lobby—clearly demonstrates the utmost maturity one would expect from a diligent intern. Intriguingly, I worked in the very same building where scenes from the iconic movie Big were filmed. Our office was situated in the actual toy company that Tom Hanks’ character worked for, which meant there was a palpable sense of playfulness and creativity infused into the office atmosphere. It was an inspiring environment, filled with dynamic individuals and the constant hum of a city that never sleeps.

A Glimpse into the World of Television Media Buying

My official designation was a “Television Media Buying Intern.” For those not conversant in the specialized lexicon of advertising, this meant I was working alongside professionals responsible for negotiating the intricate details of commercial placement and cost with major television networks. This field is incredibly competitive and fast-paced, demanding sharp negotiation skills and an intimate understanding of viewership trends. Naturally, the networks would frequently engage in various forms of “schmoozing” to foster good relationships and secure prime advertising spots. My supervisors, being at the forefront of these negotiations, were constantly showered with perks: lavish lunches, invitations to exclusive events, and an assortment of free merchandise. As an unpaid intern, I occasionally benefited from this bounty, especially when supervisors found themselves with surplus swag they didn’t particularly want. This is precisely how the Dremel, making its grand entrance, arrived on the scene.

Collection of swag

By the conclusion of my internship, I had accumulated a rather eclectic collection of items. My haul included a DVD copy of the classic film E.T., a beach towel emblazoned with The History Channel logo, tickets to witness the Goo Goo Dolls record a concert special for the Oxygen network, and, of course, my now-iconic DIY Network Dremel. I surmise that my team, comprised entirely of women, might have assumed their lone male intern would intuitively grasp the utility of a power tool. Perhaps there was a slight gender stereotype at play, but regardless of their reasoning, this compact rotary tool found its way into my possession, a precursor to a path I could never have imagined at the time.

From Urban Professional Aspirations to DIY Destiny

Dremel in box

Frankly, at that point in my life, I had no clue what to do with a Dremel. Staring at the picture on the box, the best interpretation I could muster was that this “whatsiedosie” was designed for individuals who engaged in the meticulous craft of whittling chairs. Whatever its true purpose, I firmly believed it had no place in my carefully planned future. As a college senior on the cusp of graduation, I envisioned a sophisticated career as a city-dwelling advertising professional, far removed from the dusty, hands-on world of power tools and home improvement. The thought of becoming interested in DIY projects, let alone making it my actual profession, was utterly inconceivable. Thus, I did what many non-tool-savvy sons might do: I promptly presented the Dremel to my father, assuming it would find a more appreciative home in his workshop.

The Symbolic Return: A Full Circle Moment

Life, as it often does, has a peculiar way of circling back. Just recently, my dad returned the Dremel to me. This happened as part of his extensive “purge-before-moving” process, a familiar ritual for many families navigating life transitions. I accepted it back with genuine enthusiasm, not out of a desperate need for a Dremel – in fact, I received a brand new one last year as a thoughtful Father’s Day present from Sherry (you can see its sleek, updated design below, a stark contrast to the 2003 model). My happiness stemmed from the profound symbolism of its return. This old Dremel, once an unwanted novelty, now served as a poignant reminder of the strange and unpredictable turns life can take.

Newer Dremel tool

Perhaps, I mused, that forgotten Dremel was an early omen of my future, a subtle hint at the DIY path I would eventually embrace. Was I just too young, too absorbed in gumball machines and the allure of urban life, to notice the signs? It’s a whimsical thought, certainly. One could argue I’m reading a bit too much into the serendipitous return of an old power tool. After all, if that were the case, my complimentary DVD of E.T. and my History Channel towel might be prophesying some bizarre future as an alien abduction victim or, perhaps, an ancient sunbather. While these interpretations might be stretching the imagination, the Dremel’s journey undeniably resonates with the narrative of my life.

Even if this free power tool from yesteryear isn’t directly responsible for my current occupation, I can unequivocally credit that formative internship. That experience not only paved the way for a full-time job in advertising but also led to a fateful encounter with a talented copywriter named Sherry. And from that meeting, as many of you who follow our journey know, the rest is history – a history filled with DIY projects, home renovations, and the unexpected joy of sharing our passion with a vibrant online community.

Your Stories: Unexpected Symbols and Life’s Detours

This journey with a simple Dremel has led me to wonder about your own experiences. Have any of you ever re-gifted a tool, only for it to re-enter your life further down the line, carrying new meaning? Or perhaps you’ve been given a seemingly random item that, in retrospect, became a powerful “symbol” of the life you would eventually grow into? Did you, like my younger self, ever find yourself cozied up to a giant gumball machine in a corporate lobby, or lounging on a quirky branded beach towel? I highly doubt I’m the only one with such amusing and reflective anecdotes. Share your stories – I’m eager to hear how unexpected gifts, seemingly insignificant moments, or even quirky objects have played a role in shaping your unique life paths.

Psst – these old photos from my internship days show me looking quite tanned, a stark contrast to Sherry and me now, proudly (and perhaps blindingly white) suburban parents. For proof of our current sun-avoiding complexions, you can check out some recent snapshots here and here.